Love and Limerence Stories
[What is "Limerence"?]

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Romantic Love Relationships:

 " I turned around at the end of church service to greet whoever was standing behind me and found the most beautiful woman. I looked into her eyes and finally found my voice. She was at least twenty years younger than me and I didn't really believe there could be a chance for me someone so young and ver beautiful. I would always shy away from someone this beautiful. She looked into my eyes smiled and made me feel extremely comfortable. I introduced her to another woman who was doing a healing after service and left them alone to talk. I kept making eye contact with her across the room and finally approched her again. We ended up talking for an hour and made plans to go out for lunch the following sunday after services. We have been seeing each for a little over a month now and I am getting deeper and deeper into this feeling with her. I have told her how I feel and she has said that she loves me.

I don't believe that she loves me as intensly as I love her, but at this stage in my! life I will be patient and hope that what we have deepens. I have to admit that she is constantly on my mind and I have to talk to her every day and see her as often as I can. When I am too long without communicating with her I almost go into depression and start having thoughts about her leaving me. I try to control these feelings but nothing works except the sound of her voice or being with her. There are times when I'm not sure if I want this to go on, but for the most part it's wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing. I only wish that we could both be experiencing it at the same intensity. " M 55 - 64 yrs


Romantic Love Relationships:

 "My wife is very attracted to a male co-worker of hers. Attracted to his eyes, glasses and accent. She does not desire him at this time, but I make up stories (fantasizing) about her, him and me while we are in bed and she gets very turned on. I admit, so do I. She is an Engineering Manager, so she is educated (CE) and a professional. Last week I gave her a hickey (she asked for it) and she hoped he would see it. She could hide it from other co-workers with her collar. He is consultant so his position is temporary.. " M 25 - 34 yrs


Romantic Love Relationships:

 "It has been 7 years since I last felt limerant.  That's when I last became aware of the term.  During the last time I was limerant for someone, I dated three other people, one of whom I told that I loved him romantically, but hadn't "fallen for" him.  That was a mistake.

Since then, I've occasionally dated, had many one night stands, and dated a few people nonsexually or had a mini fling...

For the record, I am bi, male, and have been limerant for both women and men.

I recently decided to change my core belief that I could find love... and experience love... and be safe in love...

And voila! Here I am again!

This time, it is all the more intense because I'm with someone who doesn't speak English well (we converse in French and Spanish) and he has told me that he loves me in 2 out of the three langauges... all on the first date!

It is quite apparent to me that he is as limerant for me as I for him.

Having been there before, I know where it can go and how it can end.

But, for the moment, I'm enjoying the exquisite agony and terrible joy of limerance with him. " M 25 - 34 yrs