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Romantic Love Relationships: " -There is no inhibition during lovemaking - wanting to please him sexually. -A desire to see him in all realms of his life - with his family, at work." F 25 - 34 yrs Romantic Love Relationships: " I have felt all the above. At the moment I am stuck on negative side of limerance and can't seem to get out. It helps to read about it, but no matter what you tell yourself, the feelings are still there. It seems to be getting easier with each passing day. " M 25 - 34 yrs Romantic Love Relationships: " I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but I have had 2 cases of limerance in our 2 years together. These people have totally disillusioned me into thinking I need to flee and explore a relationship with them based on my intense physical attraction to them. I have a serious lack of sexual desire for the man I am with and that is making this second limerance so difficult to let go of. Also, this second person and I have a lot of fun together but he doesn't have any of the quality traits that my current man has. I am feeling torn and totally preoccupied and confused as to what to do with these feelings. I don't know if I will live in this constant battle with my sexual desire and temptation. It is becoming a serious problem for my current relationship.!. " F 18 - 24 yrs Romantic Love Relationships: " I've been in a storybook, happy marriage for nearly 10 years to the most wonderful wife anyone could imagine. She is spectacular. However, one evening at a dinner party "it" hit me. This mutual acquaintance (Lisa), my lovely wife, and I started talking about surface topics but I looked into her eyes and watched her expressions and the rest is history(?). Since that evening, I've been unable to get through a single day without daydreaming about her (sometimes hours in a day!). I sit in my car and imagine what it would be like to be her husband and the father of our son/daughter. It's agonizing because I could never forgive myself if I cheated on my beautiful wife. Yet, it's also torture because relocation circumstances have led to us not being near Lisa. I just wish more than anything (I guess this is why men are compared to dogs) that even if I had the fortitude and willpower not to have intercourse with Lisa - and she's never given me even the slightest reason to believe that she'd like to be more than acquaintances - that we could be the closest of friends who believe that if I were not married then she would want me for her husband. Stupid. I know. Selfish. I know. Cruel to the woman who has been my faithful and loving wife for 10 years. I know. But it's how I feel. " M 25 - 34 yrs
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