- I have
realized that in any relationship, you've got to show your feelings;
love for one another.
- I've learnt
that when your partner is in an agitated mood, just keep quiet, be cool
and respond later.
- I've observed
that people who normally come on strong, are the ones with fewer successful
relationships.
- I've learnt
that every woman likes to have her own home, since it is where she is
in Charge. She can do it up her own way to satisfy her creative instincts.
- I've learnt
that it is important for good-looking women to differentiate between
a genuine and a flattering compliment.
- I've learnt
that everybody likes to be asked their opinion.
- I've learnt
that when you love a woman, you must meet her as often as possible.
- I've learnt
that no one respects you unless you respect yourself.
- I've learnt
that a man who believes he knows all is the biggest fool around.
- I feel
apprehensive of women who benchmark me against their father or husband.
- Love is
letting your beloved be what she is rather than what you'd like her
to be.
- I've realized
that you must have, amongst your best friends, someone you've grown
up with.
- I've learnt
that a married woman who knows you find her attractive, needs to be
told just that to put her at ease.
- I've realized
that you might not always marry the person you love. True love, is being
there, willing to help, without expecting something in return.
- I've realized
that perfectionists tend to be more critical and judgmental of others.
- Having
married a woman, it's better not to worry about her past as long both
of you are enjoying post-marital bliss.
- I've learnt
that one way of disarming a person is to say 'Help me understand'.
- I've learnt
that a partner must help you leverage your strengths and overcome your
weaknesses.
- While
dealing with people there would be some who criticize you, genuinely
or to protect their own interests. Believe in yourself, internalize
the criticism, change as much as you are happy with. Always stand up
for what you believe in or else you would lose self-esteem. Do not try
and change yourself beyond a point, otherwise you would be unhappy always
trying to project yourself as something you are not.
- I've learnt
that hassi mazaak mein I can communicate much more than with a straight
face.
- Remember
to be on good terms with head-hunters. Maloom nahin when you might need
a job.
- I've seen
that by being the helpful type, most people reciprocate when asked for
help.
- I've seen
that neighbors keenly observe your change in status and their perception
of you changes accordingly.
- Most of
us have at some point wooed and courted. I do not reciprocate another’s
feelings, when I am not interested. In other words, I've learnt not
to lead others up the garden path. After all, would I like someone to
do the same to me?
- I've seen
men who get attracted to women elder to them, are mostly, very attached
to their mothers. Probably, the woman protects her man and nurtures
the child in him just like a mother would.
- I've learnt
that to love and be loved, is the greatest joy in the world.
- I've
learnt that happier are those who forgive and forget.
- When
your wife has been, for years, used to having you back from work at
9 p.m. and suddenly start coming at 7 p.m. both of you need to learn
to spend the extra time usefully or else you could end up fighting.
- I've
learnt that love is a two-way street.
- I've
learnt that love is all about sharing and caring.
- I've
learnt that women are emotionally stronger than men.
- I've
realized that while wooing a woman there is no such thing as a fool-proof
strategy. The best of plans may go awry. My advice is just play it by
ear; be sensitive and sharp.
- I've
learnt that to win over a good-looking woman, you must compliment her
on her intelligence and be persevering.
- I've
learnt that a friend is one with whom you can chat without feeling apprehensive
of being judged.
- I've
realized that excessive wooing could boomerang. Sometimes it pays to
momentarily ignore your sweetheart. If she likes you, the phone will
ring.
- The men
who love from a distance get left behind.
- I've
learnt that one learns more by listening than by talking.
- I've
learnt that it pays more to be assertive than aggressive.
- I've
observed that in a joint family, immature is the wife who compares herself
with her unmarried sister-in-law. There will always be a different set
of rules for the daughter and the daughter-in-law.
- I've
learnt that you must know when to put the phone down.
- I've
learnt that insecurity breeds jealousy.
- While
studying for your exams, some college or building friends might try
to demoralize you by talking about how hard they study or questioning
you on subjects you do not know. I've learnt to spot such friends and
isolate them. My advice is; go by your schedule, look at the number
of quality hours spent studying and not the number of hours.
- I've realized
that sharing your vulnerability with your sweetheart helps cement the
relationship.
- I've
realized that inspite of what ever you might do, every woman wants to
hear those golden words - I Love You -.
- I've
realized that an attractive woman knows exactly what's going on in a
man's mind.
- I've
learnt that a victory won by humiliation leaves scars of resentment.
It is smarter to strategically win over the weak.
- I've
realized that if you want to marry woman who has not made up her mind
or is just too pre-occupied with her own plans, don’t pop the all-important
question but handle her gently, be there for her and may be she’ll be
yours.
- I've
realized that getting emotional in an argument makes one behave irrationally
and lose sight of the big picture.
- I've
realized that some Veejays perpetually crave for attention, apprehensive
that their popularity might decline if people don't notice them.
- I've
realized that two individuals, even after the fiercest of fights can
continue to be friends for life.
- I've
realized, that on meeting a TV personality of my dreams, I could act
fresh, trip and perhaps even fall if I didn’t hold myself together.
- I've
learnt that people who are not good listeners get isolated, come on
strong and believe that they are the best.
- I've
learnt that every person must believe in himself but at the same time
be willing to accept criticism, internalize it and change himself accordingly.
- I've
learnt that marrying a Siamese twin can make life boring, but marrying
a 50 % opposite could add value and make life interesting.
- I've
learnt that many women enjoy the company of men who will take charge
of their lives, but get married to men whose lives they can take charge
of.
- I've
learnt that eight out ten women reject guys who fall head over heels
in love with them and express their feelings too soon.
- I've
found many women clinging to the phone when they are feeling low, wanting
to be heard but being crisp and to the point when they are on a high.
- I've
learnt that most women like their men to be gutsy.
- I've
seen many attractive women use their charm to get a guy let his guard
down. My advice is be careful, try getting into a give and take situation.
- I've
learnt that women like their partners to be good listeners.
- I've
learnt that disagreement or anger can be better communicated through
tone of voice or silence than by raising one’s voice.
- I've
learnt that human behavior during childhood and old age is similar.
- Marriage
is all about companionship, sharing, giving your partner space and being
there for one another.
- Husbands
and wives have to continuously work on their relationship, add value,
juice and spice to it.
- I would
tend to ignore women who want to date me on the phone and not for dinner.
- Couples
who do not take each other for granted, respect each other's views,
agree to disagree are likely to have a happy married life.
- Be in
touch with your friends during your ups and downs. It will help build
lasting relationships.
- Some
friends might not talk to me for months, yet I know they will be the
first to help me get out of a problem. Isn't that what friendship is
all about?
- Trusting
one another is only the first step in a lasting relationship.
- Most
women are busy assessing the guy on the first date and may probably
talk about themselves on the second or third one.
- Always
remember to return favors. You will have more people wanting to oblige
you.
- Having
got married, many of my friends continue to meet attractive women. While
they cannot marry all of them, they can enjoy their company, become
friends, be there for them and may be lots more.
- While
selecting your life partner, you have to go by your gut feel, rather
than being logical and rational about it.
- I've
learnt that when you are unhappy or angry with someone, let it be known.
If you do not vent your feelings, tension builds up within. Two things
could happen. Either you could get into an argument and get it out of
your system or your behavior will subconsciously reflect the anger.
- I've
observed that most women seldom reciprocate love immediately. They like
to be pursued, wooed with chocolates and roses before they warm up to
you.
- I've
seen many a married man behaving very differently in the presence and
absence of their wives. There are others who are uncomfortable taking
their friends home. Both these behavioral patterns reflect on quality
of the relationship a person shares with his family
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