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Am I in Mid-Life Crisis? Many people between thirty and sixty - whatever their status or achievements - undergo what is often called "a mid life crisis". Karl Jung suggests the second half of life cannot be lived according to the program of life's morning. The truths and ideals we held then no longer satisfy as we search for deeper and different meaning and purpose. For some the move into this "second journey" is a smooth transition while for others everything in their lives is literally turned upside down. While everyone's "second journey" is unique, there are a number of characteristics which help identify the nature of the journey. A second journey 'happens'. We do not voluntarily enter upon it. Even when we seem to willingly start it, something else usually precipitates it. A new job, a serious illness, a relationship breakup, a death, long-service leave. Many things can be the trigger. Next, the journey usually entails a crises of feelings such as in personal failure, unresolved conflicts or fears of the future. We may experience feelings of loneliness or a loss of satisfaction with our lives. We may hunger for more novelty and affection. A feeling time is running out can give us a sense of urgency. We then often undertake a radical reappraisal of our lives and as a result make significant decisions and changes. This can be a time of dislocation and relocation as we take up the new directions. A new job, different hobbies, travel, study or a new relationship. Our inner feelings are quite often expressed in life style changes as we move further into our "second journey". Believe me, there are many people on this part of life's journey. You are certainly not alone!
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